by amagine | Jan 20, 2023 | latest, Solo Play, The Birds & the Bees
The Surprising Grief at the Start of Sexual Healing There is a surprising grief and loss that often come up when people make the move to step into their full sexual power. When you start making your sexuality a priority, after decades of pushing it under the rug, off...
by amagine | Oct 23, 2022 | latest, Pleasure & Desire, The Birds & the Bees
#2: Tolerating your sex life. Some years back I was doing a private workshop for about 30 married women in a living room in the Oakland Hills and in a moment of self-effacing honesty, one of them said: “Sex is my last chore of the day.” In other words,...
by amagine | Oct 15, 2022 | latest, The Birds & the Bees
#1: Putting your sex life on auto-pilot In my 25+ years of teaching and coaching, I’ve noticed there are 5 big mistakes couples make with sex. In this 5-part series, I’ll break down each one and what to do about it so you can be the sexual rockstar of your own life...
by amagine | Jan 26, 2022 | Sexual Politics & Culture, Solo Play, The Birds & the Bees
It’s no secret that women are socialized to take care of everyone else. To question ourselves, and to take a back seat in business, money and sex. People teach us to be a “good girl”. Where the “good girl” and people pleasing comes from As...
by amagine | Jan 20, 2022 | Couples Play, Pleasure & Desire, The Birds & the Bees
Play is the exultation of the possible.–Martin Buber Ever since I first came across that quote by Buber, I have kept it on one of my altars at home, a daily reminder of one of my core values. Play. Sex play is a cornerstone of my work. We intuitively knew play as...
by amagine | Jan 18, 2022 | Solo Play, The Birds & the Bees
When I ask people what they most want for their sexual lives, they often say they really want more confidence. Helping people to build confidence is a huge part of my work with clients, and it’s a huge result of the work we do. So why do most people seem to lack...
