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Permission for Pleasure
Sadly, it’s common for people to experience tremendous guilt about feeling good.
Pleasure is one of the primary reasons we are here, and yet many anti-pleasure religions and organizations, cultural ideas and belief systems, and even our families teach us to suppress our desire for pleasure, or to judge our desires so harshly that we do not allow ourselves to bust out and bask in the joy of feeling good.
Our culture teaches us to work, work, work and push hard, and so many of us create lives that leave little room for experiencing pleasure.
In my work, a lot of what I do is help people to experience pleasure, to play, and to be free. I give them permission to do all of that without guilt. To do it just to do it.
Most of us need the permission to step out of the confinements of whatever limiting behaviors we have been taught, and when we do, we find parts of ourselves that were there all along, wanting expression.
Sometimes the guilt is even for the very desire of wanting pleasure. Why feel bad for wanting what you want?
Because someone told you you couldn’t…
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