by amagine | Jan 20, 2023 | latest, Solo Play, The Birds & the Bees
The Surprising Grief at the Start of Sexual Healing There is a surprising grief and loss that often come up when people make the move to step into their full sexual power. When you start making your sexuality a priority, after decades of pushing it under the rug, off...
by amagine | Nov 20, 2022 | latest, Solo Play
German-born physician-scientist Wilhelm Reich “was best known for his claims of a cosmic life force associated with sexual orgasm,” (CBS News). Because the U.S. was not ready for such a progressive, sex-positive idea, stemming from the power of orgasmic energy, his...
by amagine | Nov 10, 2022 | Couples Play, latest
#5: Not going for it, while fear leads the way. People often say it’s easier to do the freaky deeky things they fantasize about with someone they barely know, rather than a long-term intimate partner. It can feel more vulnerable to share the things that are...
by amagine | Oct 23, 2022 | latest, Pleasure & Desire, The Birds & the Bees
#2: Tolerating your sex life. Some years back I was doing a private workshop for about 30 married women in a living room in the Oakland Hills and in a moment of self-effacing honesty, one of them said: “Sex is my last chore of the day.” In other words,...
by amagine | Oct 15, 2022 | latest, The Birds & the Bees
#1: Putting your sex life on auto-pilot In my 25+ years of teaching and coaching, I’ve noticed there are 5 big mistakes couples make with sex. In this 5-part series, I’ll break down each one and what to do about it so you can be the sexual rockstar of your own life...